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CIRCLE OF SECURITY INTERVENTION PROGRAM FOR PARENTS AND CHILDREN<\/h4>
Based on decades of attachment research<\/div><\/div>
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MY MISSION AND VISION<\/strong><\/p>\n

In 2016, out of the conviction that an attachment relationship characterized by emotional safety is the greatest gift that a person can give to another person, I became a “Circle of Security” facilitator after training with Kent Hoffman, one of the originators of this unique, evidence-based program.<\/p>\n

Whether we’re talking about the parent-child relationship, the couple relationship, the friendship relationship, the mentor-disciple relationship, or the therapeutic relationship, I believe that when we meet someone who is consistently approachable and predictable, who knows the chemistry that takes birth of gentleness and firmness, and who cares for the best for us, we actually find that fertile environment we all need to grow spiritually. In everything I do, I strive to convey this message and support such relationships.<\/p>\n\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n

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In my searches through the complexity and unique world full of mystery of the human soul itself as well as of my clients, I understood how important the primary relationships between children and parents are. These primary relationships sometimes carefully shape or brutally sculpt the primary idea of love, care, belonging, value, contact, or relationships. Future generations will live in a world different from that of our parents and grandparents. The period of transition that we were all going through generated a rift between generations.<\/p>\n

Social, economic, and cultural conditions are constantly changing, and that’s why sometimes we feel like parents are out of date in communicating with our children. We have accepted that we are, in a period of transition, at an extremely painful crossroads: affections. It is difficult for parents to definitively break away from the models of their parents, so familiar and in which they still find themselves so easily. Rationally, on the other hand, they have already recognized that they have a duty to avoid for their children a series of abuses that these models perpetuated without permission. Conflict situations in the contemporary family (which is gradually moving away from the traditional structure) appear with alarming frequency, and parents fail to overcome the communication barriers, and the child is the first to suffer, being exposed to abuse and neglect.<\/p>\n\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>

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The parent caught up in daily stress ignores the important role he has in the development and education of the child, in his involvement in training, and often notices the children’s problems only when they manifest, and the solution is to call for support from specialists only in crisis situations. Thus, a need was felt to renew the knowledge, skills, and values that parents can call upon to be able to maintain good long-term communication with the child, without completely renouncing family values, which still remain the best framework for the development of the child in each of its stages of growth.<\/p>\n

The European values that we have adhered to stimulate us even more to give up traumatic methods, and that the rights of the child should no longer be an abstract concept but an everyday practice for each of us. Moving to another dimension of the parent-child relationship means sometimes painful decisions, taking responsibility with the awareness that although perfection does not exist, I cannot simply give up the duty to seek and get as close as possible to the ideal parent. How much to throw away the old models? What to keep? Where to introduce the change? They are no longer alone in front of these questions.<\/p>\n

This inner search received real support. Parental education is now an alternative at hand, our existence, of specialists who are ready to support you and help you to better understand first of all yourself, not only your children, so that future generations stop living your moments of impasse and adopt flexible attitudes that allow change and adaptation more easily.<\/p>\n\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n

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What is the 'Circle of Safety' Parental Education Program?<\/h2><\/div>
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The Circle of Security program is a psychological training and parenting education program based on attachment theory described by John Bowlby. It helps parents or caregivers build secure relationships with their children, focusing on understanding behavior as a signal of a specific need and acting accordingly. Circle of Security Parenting aims to make parents reflect on their attachment experiences, reducing negative mental attributions to their child\u2019s normal attachment-seeking behaviors. Parents can then provide a secure base for their distressed child, improving their child\u2019s attachment.<\/p>\n

To respond more easily to our children’s needs, we must first understand ourselves as adults, becoming aware of our behaviors and reactions. A secure relationship between parent and child helps the child trust themselves and others, explore the world with courage, develop emotional understanding and management, seek support when overwhelmed, empathize with others, and be kind and gentle.<\/p>\n\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>